A Small Part of the Reason

I was not always how I am now; at least I did not start out this way. When I was a child, I was as ignorant as they came; aloof to the world, and the embodiment of it. As I grew older, I began to see what truly lurked within it. It actually scared me a little bit. This is a small part of the reason why; I first began to isolate myself from society. It was not a fear of being physically harmed, it was the unknowing if someone was being honest with me or not. It took me some time, but I was finally able to filter out the bullshit from the truth. This filter was developed by not emotionally connecting with the person you are reading. If you do become emotionally connected to the person you are trying to read, it will be that much more difficult for you to filter them out. Some people run such a good game; it will be extraordinarily difficult to read them. If this is the case, you will have to spend as much time with them as possible; that way you can learn their mannerisms, and learn the verbiage they consistently use. When someone is lying to you, they will use a different type of vocabulary, than they would when they are telling you the truth. Eye contact and hands are usually the best way to distinguish truth from bullshit. I soon came to the realization that I never really knew how fucked up people could be, and are. I soon came to the realization that people will lie straight to your face, just so they can achieve a desired outcome from you, even though it will not benefit you the slightest bit. I soon came to the realization that this is especially true when you are in a dating type of situation with a woman. Obviously, not all women are liars, and have cultivated manipulation to an art form; just as it is obviously true, that not all men are liars and cheaters. Everyone is unique within their own, “fucked-up-ness” if you will. You have to take the time, and listen to your heart when it comes to getting to know anyone; this is especially true when it comes to romance, or business. As for some, romance is their business. It is especially tough, when you want to follow through with a relationship, that your heart is warning you about. But believe me when it comes to this issue; your heart will never lie to you. The pain you feel from it sometimes, may feel as though you are dying, and everything in your life is ruined; but a lie, never!